If You Want a Harvest, You Must Plow First

If You Want a Harvest, You Must Plow First

If your marriage no longer feels fulfilling and the passion has faded, it’s time to ask yourself a hard question:

💭 “If you are too lazy to plow, then don’t expect a harvest.” — Proverbs 20:4

Marriage doesn’t die overnight. It withers slowly when we stop showing up, stop trying, and stop tending to it with love and intention.

You cannot expect closeness if you don’t sow connection.

You cannot expect peace if you don’t uproot resentment.
You cannot expect passion if you’ve stopped pursuing one another.

As a submissive wife, your role is not passive. It’s a calling to nurture, to soften, to pour love into your marriage daily, even when it’s hard.

Love is not a feeling. It is a discipline.

And when you choose to plow faithfully—even when the soil feels dry, you will one day reap a harvest of joy, unity, and lasting connection.